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The Build Up with Eric Eve - Sep 30th

The essential idea
Quick Take
Eric Eve's training centers on mastering the art of collecting decisions in network marketing, particularly within the Vital Health wellness business. He emphasizes that the core role of an affiliate is not just to educate or promote products but to effectively guide prospects to make decisions. This involves understanding human psychology, especially the subconscious programming that influences decision-making, and using specific language techniques to lower resistance and facilitate agreement. He introduces powerful, simple phrases like "I'm just curious," "Would it be okay," and "What would you like to know next?" These phrases serve as permission language that reduces pressure, invites openness, and directs conversations towards decision-making without sounding pushy. Eric also highlights the importance of offering options to prospects, which helps them feel in control and more likely to commit. The training includes practical closing techniques that avoid traditional sales pressure, such as ending with "That's it. The rest is up to you," allowing prospects to take ownership of their choices. Eric encourages practicing these language patterns in everyday conversations with family and friends to build confidence and natural fluency. He also recommends resources like "Go Pro" by Eric Worre and Dale Carnegie's "How to Win Friends and Influence People" to deepen communication skills. Overall, the session is a strategic guide to improving recruitment and sales by speaking directly to the subconscious mind, using empathetic and permission-based language, and facilitating decisions that align with prospects' needs and desires. This approach is designed to increase conversions, build stronger relationships, and grow the Vital Health business effectively.
Best For
Vital Health wellness business affiliates and leaders seeking practical communication strategies to improve recruitment, sales, and decision-making with prospects.
Key Topics
- Collecting decisions as the primary job
- Understanding subconscious programming
- Permission language techniques
- Effective closing phrases
- Offering options to prospects
- Building rapport and trust
- Practical language for everyday use
- Recommended communication resources
Action Steps
- Practice saying "I'm just curious" to open conversations
- Use "Would it be okay" to gain permission before proposing next steps
- Ask prospects "What would you like to know next?" to guide discussions
- Offer choices to prospects to facilitate decision-making
- Close conversations with "That's it. The rest is up to you" to reduce pressure
- Apply these phrases in daily interactions to build confidence
- Read "Go Pro" by Eric Worre to enhance network marketing skills
Prospecting Angles
- Address health challenges by asking "What is your biggest health challenge?"
- Discuss financial struggles and offer business opportunities
- Highlight common knowledge with phrases like "Everybody knows" and "Most people" to build agreement
- Use curiosity-driven questions to lower resistance
- Present options to prospects to empower their decisions
Training Use
Use this training as a foundational communication toolkit for Vital Health affiliates to improve engagement, overcome objections, and close more effectively by speaking to the subconscious mind and using permission-based language.
Teaching Lines
- Our job in Vital Health is to collect decisions.
- People are programmed; we have to speak to their programming, not just logic.
- Use the phrase "I'm just curious" to open up honest conversations.
- Permission language like "Would it be okay" gets people to say yes and lowers resistance.
- Ask "What would you like to know next?" to guide prospects without pressure.
- Offering options helps people make decisions more easily.
- Close with "That's it. The rest is up to you" to avoid sounding like a salesperson.
- Everybody knows, most people - these phrases get instant agreement by tapping into subconscious programming.
Moments to revisit
Timestamped Highlights
Our job in Vital Health and network marketing is to collect decisions from prospects.
People are programmed; speaking to subconscious programming is key to influencing decisions.
The phrase "I'm just curious" lowers conversational temperature and invites openness.
Using "Would it be okay" gets permission and increases yes responses from prospects.
Asking "What would be easier for you?" gives prospects choices and directs decision-making.
"What would you like to know next?" is a seven-word, no-pressure closing phrase that guides prospects.
Closing with "That's it. The rest is up to you" removes pressure and empowers prospects to decide.
Eric recommends "Go Pro" by Eric Worre and "How to Win Friends and Influence People" by Dale Carnegie for improving communication skills.
Read the raw transcript
0:00 Good morning. Good morning. We have lots
0:03 of announcements, so I will just knock
0:07 knock it right out. Wait, what? You're
0:09 starting on something. I hate when it
0:10 does that. Okay, there we go. I'll get
0:13 my life together here. There we go. All
0:15 right, my life's together now, but my
0:18 screen is still loading. So, National
0:20 Coffee Day from yesterday. Um, it is
0:24 still, this promo is still going. So,
0:28 um, you can get Wow, this really isn't
0:31 doing it. You guys see my struggle,
0:32 right? It's not just Everyone has tech
0:35 issues sometimes. Wow. Okay, there we
0:38 go. We're back in business. There we go.
0:40 Okay, so this coffee promo is still
0:43 available today. This is also for retail
0:45 as well as for affiliates. So, it's got
0:48 the two neuro cafes, two thermal cafe,
0:50 two love cafe, and one of the big latte
0:53 cafes for only $200. Little under like
0:56 $1 under, right? So, that's pretty good
0:57 deal um for all 2, 4, 6, seven of those
1:02 products. That's pretty awesome. So,
1:04 that expires today. We're going to blow
1:06 through these because everything expires
1:07 today or tomorrow cuz it's close out,
1:09 right? All right. So, you can still pick
1:12 up your two free tea detox at um a vital
1:16 center when you place your order. And
1:18 thanks to our wonderful speaker today,
1:20 we learned to that we can also place
1:22 your order. As long as you're going to
1:24 be picking it up and say you had to
1:25 place it today, but you needed to pick
1:27 it up this weekend, you can still do
1:29 that and still um get your your TD detox
1:33 for free. So, that's an awesome deal for
1:36 anyone who's picking up at a vital
1:37 center. And then also, our super
1:40 nutrition kit is still available until
1:42 tomorrow. And that is um going to be our
1:45 little happy box. It comes with the
1:46 genius shake, the um the smart biotics
1:49 and the defense, as well as the cute
1:51 little thermos and the digital guide
1:53 that helps teach the family and
1:55 especially the kids the importance of
1:56 nutrition to teach them from a young age
1:58 to care about what they're putting into
2:00 their body and so that they um can grow
2:02 up big and strong, right? Like I tell my
2:04 stepdaughter, she's got to grow up big
2:05 and strong. So, we also do have um we
2:09 just announced it um this morning. we
2:11 will I'll be sharing in the chat, but
2:13 there is an Einstein kids call tomorrow
2:15 night as well. So, if you wanted to be
2:17 on that to learn a little bit more about
2:19 these products and what it does for the
2:20 family, then we still have our wellness
2:24 pack um free um membership going on
2:27 until tomorrow. So, with the welcome
2:29 packs, use the vital09, you get your
2:31 free welcome pack. Another great tool to
2:33 be able to close out your month
2:35 slashstart your month um as you head in.
2:38 Also, Africa, right? We started Africa
2:41 last week. You still can get the $5
2:43 membership today, just for today. And
2:46 this is really important if you're
2:47 building in Africa because these are the
2:49 last days of you to be able to get the
2:51 launch pricing. Okay? So, if you're
2:53 building in Africa or have any members
2:55 in there, make sure that you're
2:56 utilizing these pricing because that
2:58 expires today. I want to make sure that
3:01 we're starting everyone over there
3:03 launching up from the from the strong
3:05 from the beginning, right? So, again,
3:07 tomorrow's closeout. So that's where
3:09 we're we're headed all of this. So
3:11 that's why everything's expiring today
3:12 or tomorrow. And we're going to be
3:15 coming out strong. And tonight we're
3:18 closing out the month with our wellness
3:20 um council roundt. These four heavy
3:23 hitters are coming on talking everything
3:25 from technology to hormones to to your
3:30 gut health all across the board. Um
3:32 they've put so much work into it. They
3:34 have so much information they're going
3:35 to be covering. It's going to be an hour
3:37 of great information to really set you
3:39 up to see what you're going to get from
3:41 them on stage next month at Vitalfest,
3:44 right? Because we've got them all, well,
3:45 most of them at Vitalfest as well. So,
3:47 if you want to see just a little bit of
3:50 what to expect and all of the thing that
3:52 they're doing, um these four people are
3:54 going to be there. a few of them had
3:55 other commitments and they they weren't
3:57 able to be on it, but because we do have
3:59 a pretty um large round table of ladies,
4:02 it's full of great wisdom. But um these
4:05 four ladies have put so much work into
4:06 this and I'm so excited and this will
4:08 just be the first of many. So this is
4:10 just one way to start off this great um
4:14 wellness council and really showing all
4:16 of their value and what they give to
4:17 this company and they have to provide
4:19 for you. Then, if this isn't enough,
4:23 we're doing a pre-launch for Vital Sense
4:26 tomorrow. That's right. We're not going
4:28 to have a diamond call tomorrow. Okay?
4:30 If you want to tell your teams after we
4:32 do our buildup, we're going to have
4:34 founder Alex Renoso and Black Diamond
4:37 David Neves on talking vital sense.
4:40 Vital Vital OS. What this is, that's
4:42 right. It's a pre-launch. What does that
4:44 mean? It means you're going to be able
4:45 to buy stuff. Pre-launch means you're
4:48 going to be able to buy stuff, guys. So,
4:50 this is a really cool call. You're going
4:52 to want to be on there. Um, we were
4:53 originally going to do it as bilingual.
4:57 Um, but we're not going to do that.
4:59 We're actually going to make this
5:00 English speakaking only and we're going
5:02 to have the translation on the back end
5:04 in German and Spanish. We're waiting on
5:06 French. Hopefully, we'll get that
5:07 confirmed. But, um, just so that you
5:09 know, those two are for sure going to be
5:11 um, translation. So, mark your calendars
5:13 for this tomorrow. This is going to be
5:15 cool. It's going to be at 12 Eastern
5:17 time. So that's 11 central. Okay. So all
5:22 of this is um leading up to we also have
5:24 a mastermind on Saturday, right? So this
5:26 is an amazing week. We're headed into
5:28 the fall like really packed. This is
5:30 going to be great. We're launching Vital
5:32 Women this weekend and we have this
5:34 beauty box coming out this weekend and
5:37 it's, you know, so amazing because we
5:39 are at a health and wellness company and
5:41 we talk so much about wellness and
5:43 everyone I know especially America we
5:46 have a lot of vanity right we talk about
5:47 with the facial scanner and stuff like
5:49 that and using it but beauty starts from
5:52 the inside right it's it really starts
5:54 from inside like all of your skin care
5:56 all that kind of stuff starts from what
5:58 you're giving yourself in your body so
6:00 come on to this call, learn why these
6:02 products are important for for this
6:04 organization. We have so many wonderful
6:07 women in this organization. It's great
6:08 to be able to bond them. If you have
6:10 people on your team that are women that
6:12 want to plug into this, let them know.
6:14 And it's good information for guys, too,
6:16 because you're going to want all this
6:18 stuff is good for your skin care, too,
6:20 right? You're beautiful as well. Yeah,
6:21 I'm looking at you, Brandon. You're
6:23 beautiful. Beautiful, Brandon. All
6:25 right, so that's also this week. We've
6:28 got a lot of amazing calls this week.
6:30 This is pretty exciting because
6:33 obviously we're like literally on the
6:35 precipice of Vital Fest. This is so
6:37 exciting. We're going to be there in
6:39 just a few weeks. I can't believe
6:41 tomorrow is October which means tomorrow
6:43 tomorrow's next month, right? And that
6:45 means that we're almost going to be all
6:46 together as a family to hang out and um
6:50 just learn from each other and grow and
6:52 bond and build up together. So, this is
6:55 going to be a really amazing week. It's
6:58 already been a great week. We're already
6:59 halfway through it and we have so much
7:01 more to go. And if you thought that was
7:03 a lot just with the announcements, we've
7:04 got a beast as a speaker today. We got
7:08 Eric Eve in the house. Double Diamond,
7:11 big boy. He's up in the house. He's full
7:14 of information. He is very prepared to
7:16 talk. He's so excited. Um, I know he's
7:19 going to bring us some some good wisdom
7:22 with love and kindness and he's just he
7:26 blesses us with all of his leadership.
7:28 So, thanks for being on the call today
7:30 and take it away, sir.
7:32 >> All right. Awesome. Awesome. Can you
7:33 hear me, Claire?
7:35 >> Thank you so much, Adriel. I appreciate
7:37 all that you do for this family. You're
7:39 definitely a major major blessing to the
7:42 Vital Health family. We so appreciate
7:44 all that you do. So family, we will not
7:47 be before you long today. Um I know I
7:50 typically come here, well not typically
7:52 I only been here a few a few times.
7:54 Haven't been here since July, my
7:56 birthday, but uh I'm typically the one
7:58 talking about networking, recruiting,
8:01 fivestar people, high caliber
8:03 individuals. Today's going to be a
8:05 little different. I know I always have
8:06 my PowerPoint. Uh it will not be any
8:08 PowerPoint today. It's going to be some
8:10 some strong concrete information you all
8:13 can use uh to your build your business.
8:15 You will not get I know sometime I'm
8:17 charismatic but it's not that type of
8:19 party today. You're not going to get
8:21 emotionally charged but you will get
8:23 some information that's going to allow
8:24 you to create uh results. So here's a
8:29 question I have for the Vital Health
8:30 family this morning. Um, what what would
8:34 you say is our job description here as a
8:37 Vital Health affiliate? As a wellness
8:40 ambassador for Vital Health Global, what
8:42 would you say our job description is?
8:47 And I'm going to be looking at the
8:48 chats. Good thing about not doing a
8:49 PowerPoint. I can like look at the chat.
8:52 Okay.
8:54 I appreciate the love, but uh let's get
8:56 right to work. What would you all say
8:58 our job description
9:01 is here at Vital Health? Okay. Solution
9:04 provider
9:06 promote
9:08 building distribution points.
9:12 Share
9:16 hope dealer. Okay. Good stuff. Good
9:19 stuff. Good stuff. All right. So, here's
9:21 deal family. Yes. about all that
9:23 educate. Um yes yes yes and no right our
9:28 job in vital health and this is across
9:30 the board for all network marketing
9:32 companies is to collect decisions that
9:34 is our job at the end of the day it is
9:38 our job to collect decisions uh Mr.
9:40 Alexo Dr. Tony Rodriguez, phenomenal
9:45 owners, phenomenal farmers, the best of
9:48 the best, right? I've had the
9:49 opportunity to spend a lot of time with
9:50 them and I mean, they're the best of the
9:53 best. They've invested millions of
9:55 dollars into labs, product, uh, we have
9:59 the best leaders here who create great
10:01 presentations, right? We have the best
10:03 leaders here putting together phenomenal
10:05 events like Vitalfest and Super
10:07 Saturdays, right? We just had an event
10:08 in Chicago, Atlanta, have an event in
10:11 Dallas coming up after Vital Fest. All
10:13 these great things that the company
10:14 provides.
10:16 They simply need us to go out there and
10:18 collect decisions. That's it. Without
10:20 any decision collecting, nothing
10:22 happens. People don't buy the products.
10:25 They don't join the business. Would you
10:27 all agree with that? Does that make
10:28 sense? So, if our job is to collect
10:32 decisions, we got to understand people.
10:35 Like I once learned from a mentor of
10:36 mine who's a guy good friend Jerry D.
10:39 Ronald Clark Jerry D. Ronald Clark he
10:41 said if you learn more about people than
10:43 you do product you'll get rich right so
10:46 if you learn more about people than you
10:47 do about our detox line our nourish line
10:50 you will do very very very well here
10:53 without a host. So understanding people
10:56 people we're weird like human beings we
10:58 are like very very very weird right we
11:01 do not move with logic right cuz if
11:04 everybody move with logic every single
11:06 person you talk to about a healthful
11:07 joint right who doesn't want to live
11:09 longer who doesn't want to make more
11:11 more income right why is it that when we
11:13 go out there and share this information
11:15 with our family and friends we don't
11:17 sign everybody up has has that ever like
11:21 concerned you like wow we got Like who
11:23 wouldn't want to take V daily every
11:24 single day? Who wouldn't want to take
11:26 nitro and glutation plus and omegas,
11:29 right? Who wouldn't want that in their
11:30 system every single day? Who wouldn't
11:32 want to take advantage of a compensation
11:34 plan where you get 900% profit margins,
11:37 right? Because we don't think logical,
11:39 right? Like people think um that they're
11:42 skeptical. And I I posted this on
11:45 Facebook a few weeks ago when in
11:47 actuality people are not skeptical. They
11:49 are programmed.
11:51 They are programmed. So when you
11:54 understand that people are programmed,
11:56 you will learn to speak to the
11:59 programming, right? So we have a
12:01 conscious mind, we have a subconscious
12:02 mind. Your conscious mind brain can only
12:06 like do one of two things. Like your
12:08 conscious mind right now is listening to
12:09 me right now. Your conscious brain
12:11 cannot listen to me and have another
12:13 conversation. It just it's impossible,
12:15 right? You have to stop listening to me
12:17 and then tune into a different
12:18 conversation. But your subconscious mind
12:21 is doing a billion things
12:22 simultaneously. It's the same reason why
12:25 you can leave your job, go home, eat, do
12:28 your do your makeup, text somebody, and
12:31 get home with no problem. That's your
12:32 subconscious mind operating from
12:35 programming. Right? So when it comes to
12:38 building this business, we have to
12:40 understand
12:41 how to speak to the subconscious mind.
12:44 We got to we got to filter through the
12:46 conscious brain that's skeptical and
12:49 speak to the programming which will help
12:50 us collect decisions, right? Um it's not
12:54 an accident and I'm not bragging. It's
12:56 not an accident. I've sponsored, you
12:58 know, nearly 60 people involved health,
13:00 right? It's some things I've understand.
13:02 Yeah, there's some influence. Yeah,
13:03 there's some relationships. Yes,
13:05 I'veorked. At the same time,
13:08 I understand some principles on the
13:12 getting past their their conscious
13:14 thinking going right to the programming
13:16 so I can collect decisions. All right.
13:17 So, I'm just curious. I was sharing the
13:20 chat. I'm just curious. What is your
13:22 biggest challenge right now in vital
13:23 health? Quick, I need we we got I want
13:25 to do this in 30 minutes. I'm just
13:27 curious. What is your biggest challenge
13:29 right now?
13:36 little class participants. 126 of us.
13:38 Recruiting. Recruiting. Okay. All right.
13:41 Recruiting.
13:44 Retail versus affiliate. Okay.
13:49 So, just that language right there,
13:52 those three words I just used. I'm just
13:55 curious.
13:57 That phrase alone will get people to
13:59 tell you whatever you want, whatever you
14:01 want to know.
14:02 Like start practicing. I want you like
14:03 just practice today. Not even in the
14:05 business. Just practice with your kids,
14:06 with your spouse. I'm just curious.
14:09 Those three words will work magic for
14:12 you. It lowers the temperature of the
14:14 conversation. You're not interrogating
14:16 them. It invites people to tell you
14:18 exactly what's going on. So when
14:20 somebody sees a presentation and they
14:22 don't sign up, I'm just curious. What's
14:25 preventing you from getting started
14:26 today? I'm just curious what's
14:29 preventing you from uh going to Vital
14:33 Fest. I'm just curious what is your
14:34 biggest health challenge? I'm just
14:36 curious what business projects are you
14:38 working on right now. That language, it
14:41 puts the guard down for people to tell
14:43 you what's going on because when people
14:44 tell you their problem and you offer a
14:47 solution, it's it's that much easier to
14:49 collect this decision. So, write that
14:51 down. I'm just curious. those three
14:54 words, it empowers you to get people to
14:57 tell you pretty much anything. All
14:59 right, so with that being said, would it
15:01 be okay if I gave y'all some language
15:04 for to help you collect decisions,
15:06 right? In fact, would it be okay if you
15:09 start using this language today? Right?
15:13 So, I don't know if you caught that.
15:15 Those five words, would it be okay? It's
15:18 powerful, powerful words to get people
15:20 to tell you yes every single time.
15:22 Practice this with your kids when they
15:23 get home. Hey, would it be okay if you
15:26 did the dishes right now? Would it be
15:28 okay if you did your chores? Would it be
15:30 okay if you did your homework? Now, the
15:32 household I grew up in, if that that
15:34 wasn't going down, right? My my mom and
15:38 dad wasn't asking would it be okay? But
15:40 seriously,
15:42 practice that with your family and
15:44 friends and watch what happens with your
15:46 prospects. If you know somebody is
15:50 struggling with type two diabetes, and I
15:52 gotta be really please forgive me. I'm
15:54 gonna do my best to be compliant. Uh,
15:56 Alex, Tony, if y'all see this, but um,
15:59 if you know somebody struggling with
16:00 type two diabetes, and you say, "I'm
16:03 just curious. What is your biggest
16:05 health challenge?" And they say, "Hey,
16:06 I'm I'm been on freaking metform insulin
16:09 forever." If I say, "Would it be okay if
16:13 we got you off of pharmaceutical drugs?
16:16 Would it be okay if we started your
16:18 holistic health journey today? If I know
16:20 somebody's struggling in their finances,
16:23 right, and I'm sharing a vital health
16:25 opportunity and I said to them, hey,
16:28 would it be okay if we started this
16:30 business project to create a second
16:32 income so you don't have to get a second
16:33 job? Would it be okay if we created
16:35 created an additional cash flow with you
16:37 for you part-time?
16:39 Would it be okay?
16:42 those five words there is it's it's it's
16:45 permission language. You're not telling
16:47 them what to do. You're you're getting
16:49 permission, right? And when people say
16:52 yes, it's hard for them to go back after
16:53 they didn't say yes, right? You'd be
16:56 surprised how many more people you get
16:57 to buy product, how many more people you
16:59 get to join the business, how many more
17:00 people you get to get on a Zoom call, go
17:02 to a Super Saturday, just by simply
17:04 saying, "Would it be okay?
17:07 Would it be okay if we figured out how
17:08 to get you to Vital Fest in Orlando?
17:10 Would it be okay if we figured this out?
17:13 Would it be okay? So, take 30 I need
17:15 everybody right now, take 30 seconds,
17:18 text out, write out
17:20 three to five would it be okay phrases
17:22 you can practice today with either a
17:24 prospect or even with your family,
17:27 right? Like wives, think of some things
17:30 you can ask your husband when he gets
17:31 home that he may give you a hard time
17:34 and just say, "Would it be okay?" Put it
17:36 to test. Like, prove me wrong. Shoot me
17:39 an inbox on Facebook today or tonight,
17:41 tomorrow, and say, "Hey, I tried this
17:43 out. It didn't work." Or, "Let me know
17:44 it did work." Hey, would it be okay if
17:47 you took the garbage out right now?
17:50 Right? Would it be okay? Those five
17:53 words have allowed me to recruit a lot
17:56 of people. It's called permission
17:57 language. Okay. So, that being said, we
18:00 we're talking about Final Fest. Um,
18:03 events are everything. Events are
18:05 everything. You have to ask yourself,
18:09 would it be easier for you to continue
18:11 going down the same path you're in right
18:12 now? Perhaps struggling with a lot of
18:15 people said recruiting. What what what
18:17 would be easier for you to continue
18:18 doing what you're doing right now,
18:19 struggling to recruit or to get yourself
18:22 in a room with the top income earners in
18:24 all of our health to get what you need
18:25 to build a big business?
18:28 Think about that for a second.
18:34 See, when I said that, some of you are
18:36 saying to yourself, some of you right
18:38 now who are struggling in your business,
18:40 you're literally, you're not committed
18:42 to going to Val Fest, you're literally
18:43 saying to yourself, what would be easier
18:45 for me to go down this path that I'm on
18:48 right now, not getting the results I
18:50 need or to be in a room with the top
18:52 leaders?
18:54 I don't know how many words that is.
18:55 What would be easier for you? Six words.
19:00 using those six words with prospects,
19:02 right? It it it forces them to make a
19:06 decision. Like people like options. So
19:09 when I say what would be easier for you,
19:11 what what be easier for like I said to
19:13 this guy last night, well, I'm not going
19:14 to say his name because he may he's
19:16 probably going to join today and he's
19:17 going to see the recording. Well, he
19:18 knows who I'm talking about. But anyhow,
19:20 he's been having some some challenges,
19:22 right? And I said, "Hey, what would be
19:23 easier for you to continue struggling
19:26 the way you are right now or to take
19:28 some time to have a conversation so we
19:30 can set you up with this business to
19:31 really replace your income job?" He's
19:34 like, "Yo, you're right. You're right,
19:37 man. Let's talk tomorrow." See, when you
19:39 say, "What would be easier for you?"
19:41 You're speaking to the sub the
19:43 subconscious
19:44 programming. Hey, which one of these
19:47 options do I want to take? Right? What
19:50 would be easier for you? To keep popping
19:52 pills and sticking yourself every single
19:54 day for the rest of your life or
19:57 to get on this product called S Balance
19:58 and watch what it does with your blood
20:00 sugar levels? What would be easier for
20:02 you? Drive fighting traffic every single
20:04 day to go to the shop that you hate or
20:07 partner with me with the best network
20:09 marketing company in the industry that
20:11 set people up to be free. What would be
20:12 easy for you? Telling your kids no every
20:15 single year or making a decision today.
20:19 So this time next year you can tell your
20:20 kids yes. What would be easier for you?
20:23 Now that that that that's the only one
20:26 you got to kind of be careful. You got
20:27 to have a relationship. You don't want
20:28 to offend somebody you just met. But if
20:30 it's somebody you have a relationship
20:32 with like you give them the options.
20:34 What would be easier for you? Right? I
20:37 promise you those six words, what is it?
20:40 Six words. Five six words. Those six
20:42 words will help you direct people's uh
20:47 decision-m if that makes sense. What
20:50 would be easier for you to meet Sunday
20:52 as uh Tuesday 7 or Wednesday 7? What
20:54 would be easier for you to jump on a
20:56 phone call or get on a Zoom? Right? I'm
20:58 not asking, hey, do you want to get on a
20:59 Zoom? Do you want to meet? What would be
21:01 easier for you? It's they're always
21:03 going to give you the option that works
21:05 best and it it it gives you the um it
21:08 gives you the power to direct
21:11 decision-making. Does that make sense?
21:13 Drop a thumbs up if I'm if I'm if this
21:15 is landing for somebody. All right.
21:18 People like options and you get to
21:20 facilitate their decisions rather than
21:22 forcing an answer. Right? So, check this
21:25 out. Some people have figured out a way
21:27 to go diamond in 90 days.
21:31 Some people have figured out a way to
21:34 replace a full-time income with divided
21:36 hope business. You see what I just did?
21:38 A lot of you listen to me right now,
21:40 you're ready for the next statement.
21:41 You're like, "Okay, what did they do?
21:44 What what what's next?
21:46 Write those words down." Some people
21:49 have figured out a way. Seven words.
21:52 Seven words that will command immediate
21:56 interest. It literally freezes their
21:58 brain. their their conscious mind is not
22:01 working anymore. Their brain that says,
22:03 "I'm not doing sales. I'm not getting
22:05 into a way to a scam way. I'm not
22:07 selling vitamins, pills. I don't want to
22:08 do this thing that my mom tried, my
22:10 cousin tried. I've seen all my friends
22:12 get burned and lose money. I lost my
22:14 shirt in this crypto thing." When you
22:16 say, "Some people have figured out a
22:17 way." You immediately freeze their
22:19 brain. Conscious mind is not even
22:20 working. You're speaking to their
22:22 subconscious mind. What's next? What
22:25 happened?
22:26 Some people have figured out a way to
22:28 get off pharmaceutical drugs. Some
22:30 people have figured out a way to extend
22:33 their life 10 20 years. I mean that's
22:35 not compliant but you know sometime I'm
22:38 the person who rather uh ask for
22:39 forgiveness than permission. So
22:41 hopefully our compliance team is not on
22:43 but um you know some people have figured
22:46 out a way to place their full-time
22:47 income at 18 months. Some people have
22:49 figured out a way to create a second
22:50 paycheck without getting a second job.
22:53 You say that at the dinner table. Um,
22:56 you say that at Thanksgiving to some
22:59 family members while you're sitting
23:00 around watching the football game, you
23:02 will have their attention. They're like,
23:04 "Okay, what what like how?" Right?
23:07 They're already closed before they see a
23:09 presentation. Again, our job is to
23:11 collect decisions. Vital Health is going
23:13 to provide the presentations. They're
23:15 going to provide the products, the comp
23:16 plan, the all this stuff, right? Our job
23:20 is to collect decisions.
23:22 I would take 30 seconds right now. Write
23:25 it out. Some people have figured out a
23:27 way. You plug in what you want to say to
23:30 your prospects. Take 30 seconds. Some
23:33 people have figured out a way. Some
23:36 people have figured out a way to get
23:37 their children more focused in the
23:38 classroom naturally.
23:41 Some people have figured out a way to
23:43 get their children off of medication.
23:46 Some people have figured out a way to to
23:48 be painfree without taking uh Tylenol
23:50 and Advil. Some people have figured out
23:54 a way.
23:57 All right. Doing good on time. Doing
23:58 good on time. All right.
24:02 So,
24:04 everybody says they want to make more
24:07 money. Everybody knows that the economy
24:10 is not
24:12 suited to help people to get ahead.
24:15 Most people know that a 9 to5 will not
24:18 set them free. Would you all agree?
24:21 Everybody knows that they're poisoning
24:23 our food.
24:24 Everybody says they want to take a more
24:26 natural approach. Most people are
24:28 looking for a way to take care of their
24:31 health holistically. Ever since the
24:33 pandemic, ever since the pandemic,
24:36 everybody knows that the food is bad.
24:40 Everybody says they want to take a
24:42 holistic approach. Would y'all agree?
24:45 How many people caught what I just did
24:47 there? How many people caught that?
24:49 Write these two word. Well, it's six
24:52 words, but it's it's two words different
24:55 times. Everybody says everybody knows
24:59 most people. And you can you can put
25:03 them together. You could just use one at
25:04 a time. Right? Here's what happens when
25:06 you when you're in conversation. You say
25:09 and you use this language. Again, we're
25:11 talking to the program. We're talking to
25:13 the skeptic brain. It's like the
25:16 subconscious mind cannot refute its
25:19 programming, right? The subconscious
25:21 mind, it it's programmed. It can't like
25:24 you program a computer to do something.
25:27 It's going to do it. It it's it's
25:28 programming. Our mind is the same way.
25:31 So when you say to somebody
25:33 everybody says everybody knows most
25:37 people the human brain there's some
25:40 programming back there that says am I a
25:42 part of the everybody or am I a part of
25:44 the nobody am I a part of the most
25:46 people or not the most people it is it's
25:49 human nature to want to be with the
25:51 masses it's human nature so when you say
25:56 everybody knows our food is not good for
25:59 us even even if don't know their their
26:02 programming says, "Wait a minute. Okay,
26:04 I need to know that. Yes, I agree." That
26:07 language gets people to instantly agree
26:09 with you. Everybody knows this economy
26:12 sucks. Most people are trying to figure
26:14 out a way to bring in a second income
26:16 without getting a second job.
26:19 Everybody knows we have 10,000
26:22 ingredients in our food that's killing
26:24 us slowly.
26:26 Most people are trying to figure out a
26:28 way to eat healthier. Most people are
26:33 trying to figure out a way to get high
26:34 quality nutrition into their body.
26:37 Everybody knows
26:39 the traditional 9 to5 will not set you
26:42 free. Most people are looking for a way
26:46 to build a business parttime. Most
26:47 people are looking for a side project.
26:49 See, when you say most people, everybody
26:51 says, everybody knows, they're instantly
26:54 going to agree with you. They're going
26:55 to want to know what the solution is,
26:57 right? So, practice that today. Write
27:01 that down. Write it out. Everybody says,
27:03 everybody knows, most people, I promise
27:05 you, you will get results out of this
27:08 world, right? But you got, it's it's
27:10 like a muscle. You have to practice it
27:11 because you don't want to sound like a
27:12 robot. You don't want to go like come
27:14 home, hey honey, you know, everybody
27:17 says dot dot dot. Everybody don't like
27:21 you don't want to be weird with it. got
27:23 it's the beautiful thing about the these
27:25 words it's it's conversational like so
27:27 you can let it flow in a conversation
27:29 right now how many of you would like to
27:31 close better so how many of you are
27:33 having issues when you get somebody on a
27:35 zoom you invite somebody to a sip and
27:37 scan you invite somebody to super
27:38 Saturday you even sit down with them
27:40 over coffee share information and you
27:42 get stuck at the end like oh my gosh
27:44 what I do be honest how many of you are
27:47 stuck at the closing part
27:51 Okay.
27:53 Would it be okay if I gave you some good
27:54 closing words where you don't feel like
27:56 a salesperson? Would it be okay if you
27:58 had a handful of words that will get
28:00 people to join you right away? All
28:03 right.
28:05 Real simple. So, you're sitting down
28:08 with somebody at Panera Bread Starbucks,
28:11 right? They come over to the house, they
28:13 get the scan done,
28:15 and you've you played the presentation
28:17 or you did the presentation, right? Or
28:19 you maybe you have your expert there,
28:21 right?
28:23 Real simple. Real simple. Write these
28:27 seven words down.
28:30 What would you like to know next?
28:36 What would you like to know next?
28:41 Those
28:44 seven words are
28:47 rejection free. It's no pressure to get
28:50 them to buy. And guess what? They're
28:52 going to tell what what they want what
28:54 they what they want to know next. So,
28:56 how much does it cost? Uh 30 bucks and
28:59 you can come in and get a pack anywhere
29:00 from 170 to 1240. What would you like to
29:03 know next? Okay. Um
29:06 will I get help and support? Uh, yes. We
29:08 have a buildup call Monday through
29:10 Friday at 11:00 a.m. Eastern time. We
29:13 have a a major corporate training
29:15 Saturday at uh 11 a.m. You you're going
29:18 to learn from the best of the best in
29:20 the company. So, you're in business for
29:21 yourself but not by yourself. What would
29:23 you like to know next?
29:26 Um, I I I guess that's it. What would I
29:29 sign up? It's that simple, y'all. Okay.
29:31 I mean, again, I know we have in the
29:33 presentation, hey, do you want to be a
29:34 customer? Do you want to be an
29:36 affiliate? I mean, you can say that,
29:38 right? Yo, I mean, when I'm doing a
29:41 Zoom, yeah, I I read the presentation,
29:42 but when I'm sitting down with somebody,
29:44 like anybody who's ever worked with me,
29:46 they can tell you this is literally what
29:48 I've been doing for the past 10 years.
29:50 What would you like to know next? I
29:51 don't get into the, hey, are you a A, B,
29:53 C, D, all that stuff. Would you like to
29:56 I don't do all that, right? It's it's
29:58 that's speaking to their conscious mind.
30:00 I need to get right past the conscious
30:02 mind and collect a decision. What would
30:04 you like to What would you like to know
30:05 next?
30:08 Would you guys like one more close?
30:09 That's one example. Would you like one
30:11 more and then we're done. I'm good on
30:14 time. It's 10:30 10:30 a.m. Central
30:16 time.
30:17 Here's a powerful close, y'all. Are
30:19 y'all ready? Eight words.
30:23 Actually, two words and then you can add
30:25 another six. Here's two words to close,
30:27 y'all. That's it.
30:32 That's it. I'm sitting down with
30:34 somebody right now and I'm done. That's
30:36 it. Now, if you want to spice up a
30:39 little bit more, you can add six six
30:40 more words, which I typically do. The
30:44 rest is up to you and I be quiet.
30:49 So, I do a Zoom. In fact, for for those
30:51 who see me present, I actually close
30:53 that way. I actually close that way.
30:55 Even though I read the slides where it
30:57 says, "Hey, you could be a customer,
30:59 affiliate, or leader." Um, the last
31:02 thing I say if y'all ever heard me do a
31:04 presentation, nine out of 10en times I
31:06 say that's it. The rest is up to you and
31:10 I be quiet.
31:14 Let them tell you what what they need.
31:16 It it it commands so much posture,
31:19 right? Like you're not selling them at
31:22 all. Like their subconscious mind is
31:24 saying, "Wow, this is good. I'm not
31:28 being forced to buy something. I'm not
31:32 asking what what about my credit card,
31:34 debit card. Okay, the rest is up to me.
31:37 What what do I want to do? And y'all,
31:41 I'm telling you, you practice
31:45 speaking to the subconscious mind with
31:47 these simple words. It's so simple to
31:50 say, I'm just curious. It's so simple to
31:52 say, would it be okay? Would it be okay
31:54 if we started your health journey today?
31:56 Would it be okay if we went into
31:58 business together? and impacted our
32:00 family. Would it be okay
32:03 for us to be the first millionaires in
32:05 our family? I'm just curious
32:08 what would you and you can even put
32:09 these together. I'm just curious. What
32:11 would you like to do next? Now, comment,
32:12 I'm getting a little advanced now, but I
32:15 would encourage you all We're done.
32:17 We're done. I would encourage you all
32:19 watch this replay.
32:22 Write down the examples I gave and
32:24 practice it. Practice it with your
32:26 family. If you're really uncomfortable
32:27 going out there into the field with
32:29 prospects, just do this with your
32:30 spouse. Do this with your kids with
32:33 stuff around the house. You're going to
32:35 come back. Y'all going to shoot me some
32:36 DMs like, "Yo, this is crazy. This this
32:39 is this is actually scary how well this
32:41 works, right?" And um technically, is it
32:46 manipulation? I don't know. But can we
32:48 manipulate for good and and not bad?
32:51 It's a form of manipulation, I guess.
32:53 But hey, why not man manipulate people
32:55 to
32:57 clean their liver, their kidneys, their
33:00 pancreas? Why not manipulate people to
33:03 put something in their body like V daily
33:05 instead of Gatorade and Mountain Dew?
33:07 Why not manipulate people to start a vit
33:09 business instead of uh doing Uber and
33:12 Lift and they're putting a million miles
33:14 in their vehicles? Why not manipulate
33:16 somebody to get on the phone with a
33:18 David or a Brooke or Miles or a Keith or
33:20 Easy instead of them wearing themselves
33:23 out doing Amazon deliveries? I'm not
33:25 knocking Uber lift in in Amazon. I'm
33:28 just saying there's a better way. What's
33:31 easier for you to do Uber 50, 60, 70
33:34 hours a week and got to get a oil change
33:37 every two weeks or building this
33:39 business from home and we we scan your
33:41 entire family and replace that same
33:43 income you would have did with Rid
33:44 Share. Right y'all, I'm not This is not
33:47 even playing. I'm doing this off the top
33:48 of my head. I'm showing y'all how simple
33:50 this is, right? It's that it's that
33:53 simple. So, last thing I'll share, I'll
33:56 give you some tools. I'm not paid for
33:57 this. I don't even personally know Eric
33:59 Warary even though we got the same name
34:00 and he spells the right way. But some
34:02 things that will help you with your
34:03 language is the book called Go Pro by
34:06 Eric Warary. Go Pro by Eric Warry. Now
34:10 also shout out to Keith Williams. I do
34:12 have Pro Code. I've only uh maybe a
34:15 fourth of the way through it, but um
34:17 probably that book. It's hard for me to
34:19 recommend stuff I haven't gone through.
34:20 So I'm saying probably even though I
34:21 know it's phenomenal. He says it's 100
34:22 times better than GoPro. But GoPro and
34:24 Pro Code by Eric Warary. Also, I'm done.
34:28 Y'all give me 30 more seconds and I'm
34:30 I'm still within 30 minutes. Well within
34:31 30 minutes. How to win friend How to Win
34:35 How to Win Friends and Influence People
34:36 by Dale Carnegie. That is the outside
34:39 the Bible. That is the number one my
34:41 number one book in the world. Be like
34:44 best book ever. A lot of this stuff like
34:48 for example when I say would it be okay
34:49 and and and how to influence people. I
34:51 think he says Dale Carnegie says would
34:53 it be possible? Right? Right. So he give
34:55 you some other examples and that's not
34:56 even a network marketing book. That's
34:57 just how to at the end of the day to
35:01 collect decisions. We're winning friends
35:02 and influencing people. That's what we
35:04 do. We win friends and influence people.
35:07 So I mean what would be easier for you
35:10 to pay 10 bucks. You probably get it for
35:13 free online with some digital version.
35:15 What would be easier for you to read
35:18 this book to get better and build a
35:19 multi-million dollar business or keep
35:21 getting rejections for the rest of the
35:22 year? Would
35:26 it be okay if you all got the book How
35:28 to Win Friends and Influence People
35:29 Today?
35:31 Would it be okay if you started reading
35:32 it today?
35:34 And lastly, I would say uh
35:37 last but not least, certainly not least,
35:39 I will go on YouTube and study my this
35:42 is one of my mentors who's helped me
35:44 tremendously. I probably will have him
35:46 in Dallas soon, by the way. So, hint
35:48 hint. Uh Tom Big Al Shrider, go to
35:51 YouTube. He's literally mentored some of
35:54 the top income earners in this entire
35:56 industry. He was Jerry Clark's mentor,
35:58 right? Jerry Clark mentored Myron
36:00 Golden, mentored some of your favorite
36:02 top earners in network marketing. Big Al
36:05 mentored him. He's a good friend of
36:07 mine. A lot of stuff I learned from him.
36:08 In fact, all this stuff, 99% of stuff I
36:11 learned from him. So, Tom Big Rider
36:13 YouTube, check it out. That's free 999.
36:17 It does not get easier than free.
36:19 Adriel, 10:36 a.m. Central Standard
36:21 Time. I am not out of word. I am out of
36:24 time. Back to you.
36:26 >> I'm gonna counter. It's not
36:27 manipulation. It's marketing.
36:29 >> There you go. Marketing. High level
36:31 marketing. High level marketing.
36:33 >> That's what marketing is, right?
36:35 Marketing is using words and images to
36:38 convey a message to make someone see
36:41 things from a different perspective.
36:43 It's not going to be like adjusting your
36:45 viewpoint.
36:46 >> I like that. The other Mword I'm going
36:48 to use that it's marketing. Yes.
36:50 >> Yeah. We don't want to be manipulators,
36:52 >> right? Right.
36:53 >> We are marketers. This was awesome. You
36:56 can tell by the chat. So, come in and
36:58 thank this man for coming up here. I
37:01 know he wasn't feeling 100% today, but
37:04 he still delivered for us today.
37:06 >> Thank you. Thank you.
37:08 >> Thank you.
37:11 >> Thank you.
37:13 >> Eric, you killed it. Thank you. Thank
37:16 you, Eric. Hope you feel better now.
37:18 >> Thank you so much. Feel better. Good
37:20 job, Eric.
37:21 >> Thank you, bro. Glad your voice is back.
37:23 >> Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. Thank
37:25 you.
37:25 >> It's not fully back yet.
37:28 >> Great day, everybody.
37:31 >> Thank you.
37:32 >> You guys are awesome. We will see you
37:34 tonight on the Wellness Council round
37:36 table. We'll see you tomorrow morning on
37:38 the buildup. And then don't forget to
37:39 mark your calendars for the Vital Center
37:42 launch tomorrow at 11:00 a.m. Central,
37:45 12:00 p.m. Eastern time.
37:48 >> Have a great day, you guys.
